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Downward Cycle of Popularity

Not every brand makes it to the next generation and some are currently holding on for dear life as I type. A downward cycle in fashion means that the brand is spiraling downwards and losing its popularity and base. There are so many stores I adored as a little girl and as a teenager that are either closed, or on their way out. Henri Bendel, Juicy Couture, Macy’s, Abercrombie, and Forever 21 are just a few examples. One store that’s currently on a downward cycle is Victoria’s Secret.

In the ’90s Victoria’s Secret danced into the fashion scene and defined the word “sexy”. The company made its mark as the go-to destination for fantasy and luxury intimates, became the largest and most popular lingerie retailer in the country, and solidified its place in the market by smart advertising campaigns and a sexy in-store experience. The company also branched out into activewear, creating the PINK label, which became famous among middle school and high school girls who wore nothing but their leggings, sweatshirts, and logo. PINK stores began to open separate from Victoria’s Secret and were supposed to be where the daughters of the younger, trendier moms who shop at VS could go shopping for their activewear and underwear. PINK isn’t as provocative and is more connected to comfort and daily activities, opposed to sex and fantasy. VS stood out among the competition and invented a new way to get women (and men) to shop the brand when they hired elite “Angels”, beautiful, famous supermodels to be their top marketing strategy, strutting down the runway during the famous Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show in feathered angel wings and the brand’s latest lingerie, and promoting the intimates on social media, but over the years VS has embarked on a downward spiral in sales and popularity.

When VS entered into the retail scene it was a different world and young women, in particular, viewed themselves and beauty much differently than young women do today. Even older women have redefined what it truly means to be beautiful and sexy. Brands have reinvented themselves and newer brands burst onto the runway right off the bat with real women as models, from normal college girls and young moms to transgenders and plus size models. As hard as VS has tried to be an inclusive brand, especially with their signature PINK collection, geared towards young women between the ages of thirteen and twenty, they will always be the overtly sexy brand that used supermodels and stereotypes from the very beginning to gain sales and growth. Very few women relate to those supermodels and what they’re trying to sell and it has literally deteriorated the brand’s popularity and base over the years. Society’s definition of beauty has been redefined and we’ll never go back to the idea that only a size 00 model can be sexy and sell clothing.

VS has been most popular among Millennials and Generation Z (ages 13-34 years), with many of these customers using social media as their number one engagement tool. They love to follow influencers and models who promote the brand and the image they carry through selfies and glamour. The younger generations don’t look at catalogs or even frequent malls, which has been a huge change to the fashion world as a whole. Although Millennials grew up going to the mall every weekend, (I am guilty of this…just ask my poor father who went with me every Saturday) Generation Z and Y are living a very different lifestyle. They mainly shop online and stare at Instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook for outfit inspiration before purchasing through the store’s website or app. on their smartphone. VS has always been more popular among a certain life-stage group, such as single, young women who aren’t necessarily settled down just yet. Although there are moms with daughters who shop the brand, the majority of women who shop at VS and PINK are single and without children. Most moms and married women have moved on to other brands that are more comfortable, inclusive, and less expensive. Moms, even those who are trendy, are looking for affordability and practicality. Of course, the brand’s demographic is mostly women, but over the years a lot of men have started shopping at VS & PINK for their daughters, girlfriends, and wives. My dad shopped at PINK for years with me and when I worked at PINK very briefly before getting pregnant (I was literally only there for a month and a half before I had to leave due to medical reasons), many boyfriends came in to buy bras, leggings, and underwear for their girlfriends. VS has always been expensive and is geared more towards families with a slightly higher income level, which is why you’re able to find the stores within upscale shopping centers and malls, next to Coach, Michael Kors, and Abercrombie. The VS I used to shop at was wedged between Apple and Michael Kors.

L Brands, which owns VS sold much of its stake in the brand to a private equity firm named Sycamore in February of last year (2020), right before COVID-19 threatened our daily lives, decreasing the value of the lingerie brand substantially. During COVID-19, VS decided to close some of its stores without permission from Sycamore and breached the contract they made during the initial deal, but VS argues that they had every right to protect their company during the pandemic. Many of the once beloved VS stores have closed post-pandemic, including one in an upscale shopping area near me that I used to shop at in high school. The VS Fashion Show was cancelled due to a steep decline in views, which damaged the brand’s marketing and image. The brand suffered after society’s views on beauty changed. VS has also been criticized for exploiting women’s bodies to create sales, for being too provocative (especially by parent’s of young girls), and for refusing to embrace real women and real bodies. The brand also struggled with embracing new fashion trends such as offering more comfortable styles (bralettes and sports bras) which are more popular among the younger generations, which other brands like Aerie (owned by American Eagle) and Lively have pushed fully. Finally, the brand suffered tremendously after the founder, Lex Wexner’s relationship with the now infamous, convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein was made public. The ties between the two were splashed across magazines and websites and their relationship was even discussed in detail on Netflix’s documentary series, Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Rich. On the series, L Brands and Victoria’s Secret were both mentioned, along with Lex Wexner’s background and connection to VS, which looked beyond awful for the brand that was already struggling to remain above water. The company was also bashed by its own models for how they were treated, for inappropriate behavior towards models (including by Jeffrey Epstein on a few occasions), for refusing to hire and support transgender models in our ever-changing world, and for bullying and misogyny within the company.

In 2019, after 123 years of business, Henri Bendel, a store I cherished as a teenager, that was owned by L Brands went dark and closed all of their stores for good. I was a Bendel Girl and loved their fun, luxury items and was crushed when they closed. I still miss their brown and white striped bags, pretty displays, and fun merchandise. When VS began to struggle with sales and other issues within the company (as I discussed above), L Brands decided to close all of their Henri Bendel locations, including my favorite on Fifth Avenue in New York City and focus on VS and Bath and Body Works. The closing of Henri Bendel was a way for L Brands to hopefully increase shareholder value and was one of the first signs to me and to many others that L Brands and VS were in serious trouble, spiraling downwards. Of course, closing Henri Bendel hasn’t helped VS or L Brands and sales continue to decline, but it’s certainly interesting how a brand once worshipped can permanently fall from its pedestal.

Fashion Talk with Lizzie

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Introduction

Ever since I was a little girl I’ve loved fashion, styling, and shopping. I vividly remember crying over a cheetah print coat at Target when I was a little girl. I wanted a Barbie set and the coat, but my dad told me I had to pick between the two (a huge decision for a five year old), because they were both pricey. I took a moment to think about what I really wanted. I grabbed the coat. I chose fashion over toys. How many little girls choose outerwear over Barbies? From a very young age I felt a connection to clothing and sytling outfits and this connection has only grown stronger over the years. As a busy, twenty-five-year-old mama and wife, fashion is still an essential part of my life. I’ve decided to add another blog series to my blog called, Fashion Talk with Lizzie because I have years of fashion and marketing experience, a lot of stories, and a ton of passion. I know there are countless women, moms included that not only love fashion, but who also appreciate learning and knowing more. Why are you drawn to a certain brand? Why do some stores disappear with each generation? What’s behind the scenes? What makes up the fashion world we grew up worshipping? What affects the fashion industry and current trends? I’m here to explore it all with you and help other fashionistas learn and grow. Welcome to class, loves.

I started in fashion and retail in 2013 as a Seasonal Sales Associate at PacSun and I ended as the Marketing Assistant at an upscale shopping plaza near me, right after becoming a mommy. I love the industry so much that I’m currently enrolled at Parson’s School of Design-The New School, working on my Fashion and Business Certification. I wanted to continue to learn and dive into the world I’ve always loved and I want to add a little more bling to my resume. I’m so happy being a stay at home mama, but one day when Greyson is older and in school fulltime, I’ll want to return to the fashion and marketing world. I decided to share with my lovely readers some fashion history, my favorite brands, interesting facts and statistics that exist within the fashion world, and what makes up the fashion world (the behind the scenes), because it’s a world unlike any other. It’s also a world that is everchanging. COVID-19 has had an immense impact on the fashion industry and many stores we grew up going to are shutting their doors permanently, which makes me sad, but I saw it coming. With each generation trends change, stores must know how to grow and adapt, and generational needs/wants differ immensely. Anyone in my age bracket (twenty five-forty), if you ask your parents about their shopping habits when they were our age, what was in, and what pricepoints they shopped, you’d discover how different we are from them.

Generational Differences

Millennials are probably the most discussed generation of all time, but for good reason. A lot of events, trends, and of course, the technological advances have made Millennials very different than past generations. Even Generation Z is changing the game and is different than the Millennial generation. Millennials, were born between 1981 and 1996, making me a Millennial by ONE year. I was born in 1995 and I just made the cut. Millennials are between the ages of twenty five and forty years old, representing a huge majority of the world’s population. We define so much, including the fashion world. But, Generation Z (born between 1997 and 2015) are also contributing to the ever changing world of fashion and design. They’re much different than my generation, which is crazy, because the birth years are so close. For example, Millennials grew up going to the mall every Saturday with friends and parents, but Generation Z prefers shopping online and via social media, finding the absolute best deals, and are way more price conscious. Those little details affect the industry immensely because marketing and advertising now needs to be geared towards the online, Instagram shopper, opposed to the in-store, mall shopper. I consider myself to be very unique because I am on the border of both generations. I did indeed grow up in-store shopping, going to the mall every Saturday (my dad is a Saint, lol), but I also discovered the perks of online shopping during my late teen years. Especially during a pandemic, so many stores have now discovered that the way to survive is through smart, creative social media campaigns and easy, fun online shopping experiences. Influencers are the way into the hearts of young girls who stare at their Instagram feed more than anything else. It’s crazy how quickly women and men my age adapted to the online world, falling in love with social media and new marketing strategies that catch our attention, but luckily we discovered social media as young adults, not as children. Some of my favorite brands currently ONLY exist online (Lively and Pink Lily), which is such a change from my childhood-early teenage years.

Unlike my generation, Generation Z grew up immersed in the world of technology and fell in love with social media at a very early age. Instagram didn’t exist until I was a junior in high school, I didn’t have an iPhone, until my junior year, and none of my peers cared about selfies, or social media until we were entering into our senior year. Anyone remember the popular, pretty flipphone called the Envy? Well, that was what my friends and I had! I had the orange one. The same phone the glamorous, Upper East Side beauties in Gossip Girl carried around on Season One of the show. Yup. Even GG and other shows changed once they started using more technology. My friends and I didn’t have a frontfacing camera for selfies, we didn’t have social media icons on our screen, and we weren’t glued to our phones. It’s a very different world. Many of the Generation Z population had smartphones and laptops way before I and others my age ever did. A lot of children growing up today, born after 2015 (like my son Greyson), know technology better than any previous generation. My son sees me with my iPad, MacBook, and my iPhone, but when I was growing up my parents had landlines, beepers, and eventually a Dell Laptop with DIAL-UP…oh, the horror of waiting for your computer to “dial-up” so that you could logon to the internet, check your mail, etc. For those who have no idea what I’m talking about, Dial-up refers to Dial-up Internet Connection, which came before High-Speed Internet Connection, the kind we are all used to now using a WiFi connection. Dial-up used a modem and a phone line to connect you to internet services and was incredibly, painfully slow. You could cook a meal, write a letter, and pick out an outfit while waiting for your computer to finish dialing up. Teenagers today will not know the struggle and the pain of Dial-up internet, which is a shame. They also won’t know the excitement of getting a message on AOL Instant Messenger! I’m actually really thankful that I grew up before technology was so advanced and I honestly miss the simplicity of the past.

Many of my childhood friends didn’t even have a computer! Now, everything is instant and immediately available on our smartphones from shopping and booking events to paying bills and buying homes. I remember all of those dinosaur-like technologies mentioned above and my son will never know what a beeper is, a landline, or “Dial-up”. Wow…I feel old. The fact that Generation Z is so tuned into technology and fast, immediate experiences from shopping to medical care will have an earthquake-like affect on the fashion industry. The retail world is already changing and many stores cannot hold on much longer. It’s also important to note that many Millennials, grew up before 9/11 changed our world forever, but myself and many others grew up in a post 9/11 world. Parents became more cautious and the way we view events, places, and people changed in an instant. Events and political issues affect the way we shop, travel, and spend money. At this point, malls even make me nervous! I’m sure I’m not the only one who’d rather shop in smaller boutiques, or online instead of in huge, busy malls where attacks (shootings, bombings, etc.) are more common, and that was my thought process BEFORE COVID-19 infiltrated our daily lives. Now, I’m super cautious because if I don’t need to go somewhere I’m not going to, especially with my two year old son.

I’ve watched so many stores that I loved growing up close permanently since 2000, such as Limited Too, Blockbuster, Zany Brainy, Henri Bendel (this one hurt the most), Borders, Wet Seal, and Toys R Us. There are also plenty of stores that are on a downward cycle of popularity, which will make them the next to go. I read the other day that due to COVID-19, by 2025, 100,000 retail stores will be closed. In my next Fashion Talk with Lizzie, I’ll talk more about some of my favorite stores as a teenager that are on the way out, and why they’re slowly fading out. I’ll also talk more about what a downward cycle in fashion and retail really means.

Xoxo

Valentine’s Day Vibes 💗

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#ValentinesDayChallenge just in time for Valentine’s Day! I decided to post this to my blog and then to social media, because it’s just too cute not to share with my readers. By the way, Andrew and I aren’t obsessed with V day, but we always spoil each other and wind up having an amazing time. This year, due to COVID and being extra careful, we’re ordering Italian food from a favorite restaurant and staying in with Greyson. All I need is good food and alcohol.

Here’s our story!

How’d you meet? I was the manager at a store and during my shift he came in…I walked by him in cowgirl boots and ripped jeans and the rest is history 😘

First date? We had drinks & dinner at Pasta Vino, a favorite restaurant of ours. He actually proposed to me at the same restaurant!

How long have you been together? We’ve been together since October of 2017…but, we officially started dating on November 12, 2017.

Who asked who out? Andrew asked me to be his girlfriend in front of our good friend’s house, in the car.

Age difference? He’s four years older than me.

Who was interested first? I think we were both instantly interested!

Who is taller? Andrew is taller, because everyone is taller than me…lol.

Who said I love you first? I said I love you first.

Most impatient? Andrew!

Most sensitive? Me, 100%.

Loudest? Andrew

Most stubborn? We’re both equally stubborn.

Falls asleep first? Andrew always falls asleep first and it’s the worst.

Cooks better? Andrew

Better morning person? Andrew

Better driver? Oh, me all the way!

Most competitive: Neither one of us is competitive.

Funniest: Andrew…I’m more serious.

Where do you eat out most as a couple? We love Mexican food and Italian food. We bounce between a few restaurants.

Who is more social? I’m the social butterfly 🦋

Who is the neat freak? Me, me, me.

Where was your first kiss? Our first kiss was at my old work, where we met.

Who initiated your first kiss? Andrew

Who picks where you go to dinner? We both are super indecisive, so it takes a while!

Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong? We’re both pretty good about this, but sometimes Andrew takes longer.

Who wears the pants in the relationship? It’s equal. We’re a team, always.

Who has more tattoos? Andrew has none and I have 5, plus a sleeve 😁

Who sings better? That would be me!

Spends the most? Andrew spends more money more often, but I buy more expensive products.

Who drives? Usually Andrew drives, but if he’s driving my truck I’m so neurotic about my vehicle that I wind up bothering him and then I drive…🤣

What’s your biggest flaw and their biggest flaw? Andrew’s biggest flaw would probably be how obsessed with working he is (not a bad thing at all), but I miss him when he’s gone, and mine would be my anxiety! I get so crazy about little things, hence why I’m a neat freak.

Favorite memory with each other? The day we had our beautiful baby boy & held him for the first time. I couldn’t imagine becoming a mama with anyone else 💙

Favorite Valentines Day memory? Every Valentines Day has been special. We always do dinner, drinks, and watch a favorite movie or show. I love that every year he gets me a different colored gold-dipped rose so that in fifty years I have a massive bouquet.

Who drinks more? Me 😁

Dream vacation together? We’re both homebodies and traveling stresses us out, but I really want to go to Iceland!

Happy Valentines Day to all of the lovers out there! Be safe and be sexy. 💕

Coming Home

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Creating a Zen Workspace at Home

I’m a firm believer in everyone having a desk in their home and a zen workspace. If you have a space designated for creativity and inspiration you’ll have better, clearer ideas and you’ll feel more focused. Whether you work from home, go to school, love to write, mail letters to friends and family, or you’re a designer, a desk space is a must. After the past year, so many are finding themselves more inspired and creative than ever, because we were forced to spend more time at home and alone. COVID-19 has ravaged our world, stalking us silently, but 2020 was actually an incredibly moving and inspirational year for me. Being alone more often and being home helped me discover more about myself and I grew as a person. I found new hobbies, fell in love with old passions, such as ballroom dancing, and dove head first into home projects. I realized what I absolutely need in order to be happy and what I can live without. It has been a year unlike any other, but with each year comes important lessons, growth, and light (even in the darkest of times).

My desk area is very special to me because it’s where I’m most creative and peaceful. It’s a place where I forget about all of the noise around me. My desk is also in my bedroom, which is quiet and peaceful. I do my yoga in my bedroom, my kitties hangout in my bedroom, and it’s a calming room. It’s important to put your desk in a place that doesn’t get a lot of traffic and is for the most part, quiet. I write, of course, but I’m also obsessed with fashion and I’m currently getting my Fashion Business certification from Parson’s School of Design; All of my courses are online, which is the norm thanks to COVID-19 for all students. I do my schoolwork at my desk, write, read fashion magazines (constantly), and I make my lists (grocery lists, home project lists, goal lists) at my desk. It’s a perfect space to sit, think, and begin. My desk is from 1925 and belonged to my Great Grandmother. I love to think how many women sat down at this desk and wrote letters, paid bills, and created (including myself). Every mark and scratch on this antique is special. When I was in high school I did my schoolwork at this desk, I had a little makeup area set up to do my makeup every day, and I still do my makeup at my desk with my makeup mirror, because it feels natural at this point.

You can buy a desk from various retailers (Wayfair, Amazon, IKEA), you can find an old desk at a yard sale, or an antique store and revamp it, making it your own, or if you have someone in your life whose able to, you can have your desk custom built to suit your needs and your space. First, find the perfect spot for it in your home (adequate space is very important). Then, decide what you want the energy of your zen workspace to be. My desk area is very bohemian and connected to nature. I can look out two windows that overlook a field, with deer, trees, and perfect sunsets. I have faux flowers on my desk and celestial decorations all around to remind me of what I love. Lastly, you get to shop for all of your desk needs and decor (my favorite part). It’s very important to be selective regarding what you put on (and in) your desk and to keep it clean, organized, and clear from clutter and junk. Every item on my desk was hand selected for a reason, which makes the space that much more special. I have an iron Brooklyn Bridge, because I’m forever connected to New York City, my jewelry, because it’s beautiful and each piece is special to me, and my favorite fashion books for constant inspiration. Take some time to find what makes your heart and soul happiest and incorporate those items into your zen space. Also, candles are a MUST. Certain smells can calm you down, motivate you, and make you feel as though you’re somewhere beautiful, like laying out on the beach, or hiking in the mountains. I buy a Citrine candle every so often from a local shop because Citrine promotes success. Scents are everything. You can also buy and incorporate crystals. I’m coming up with a way to display my favorite crystals, which I’m excited about. Crystals can promote peace, healing, success, and spirituality. Have fun designing your perfect, zen workspace and remember to make it your own.

Here’s my zen workspace…

Post Christmas Vibes

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Hi, loves! I hope everyone woke up on Christmas morning feeling blessed and grateful. I know that I did. As I always say, Christmas isn’t about what’s under the tree…it’s about whose gathered around it. Of course, COVID-19 has changed our world immensely and many of us played it safe this year, only celebrating with immediate family. Andrew, Greyson, and I spent Christmas Eve at home and Christmas Day we woke up, opened gifts, and in the evening we had dinner with my parents. I cooked slow cooker apple crisp, three cheese scalloped potatoes, homemade dinner rolls, and Andrew made a ham. It was simplistic, yet perfect. I’m a homebody, especially during the holidays. I missed seeing my brother, sister-in-law, and other family members this holiday season, though. Here’s to family gatherings in 2021 (I hope)🥂

The beauty of sitting under the glistening Christmas tree while opening gifts, knee deep in wrapping paper, makes me so happy. This girl loves Christmas, forever. I’ll never be too old to search the skies on Christmas Eve and I’ll never stop believing in the magic of the holidays. Our Christmas tree will be up until New Years Day and then we’ll wave goodbye to it’s beauty and pack everything away, starting fresh in the new year. Post Christmas vibes are alive and well in our home as we prepare for 2021. One of Andrew’s Christmas gifts was an adorable coffee corner that I created in our living room, since we’ll be spending more time at home as we continue navigating the new normal. He’s tiling our entryway this upcoming week and we have big plans for our farm. Andrew built a lattice wall going all the way up our two story deck and in the spring we’re going to plant climbing hydrangeas that will grow up the wall. I’ve always wanted a wall of green and flowers. I’ve created a beautiful creative space at my desk in our bedroom and I’m in love with it. It’s been a good year for creativity and inspiration. We’ve accomplished more home projects this year than ever before and I’ve never been more organized, which is saying a lot because I’ve always been an organized freak, haha.

Andrew and I have a lot of plans and goals for the new year and I got a jumpstart on my fitness goals this week. I am intermittent fasting (no food after 8pm until 12pm noon), fasting for 16 hours. I’m filling my days with lots of water, fruit, veggies, and low calorie meals. I’m sticking with my mile long walk during the day and yoga, of course. Andrew bought me a gorgeous, good quality yoga mat for Christmas that I’m obsessed with, along with so many other gifts. I felt spoiled. He’s a keeper. Greyson went into a present coma Christmas Day and had the best day ever playing with all of his new toys. Mommas, make sure you donate all of your kids old toys to make room for anything new. It makes organizing a lot easier! The best part of the holidays as a parent is seeing the magic and sparkle through your child’s eyes. It’s beautiful. I love making each holiday special for Greyson and Andrew.

I’m making myself a priority in 2021 from fitness to passions. I’m going after everything I want and need this new year and I’m not apologizing for any of it. As a mommy, Greyson is always my priority, but I can’t forget about myself. I’ll be taking more day trips to my favorite places, which Greyson will also love, never skipping my fitness routine, and writing/reading more. I can’t stress enough how important it is to take care of your body. When I say take care of your body I don’t mean having abs and being a size 0…I mean, doing yoga, going for walks and runs, and eating healthy because it’s good for you. Take your vitamins, lotion your skin, hydrate as much as possible. Don’t smoke, drink less, and get some sleep. Do what’s best for your health because you only get one body in this lifetime. Your body is your vessel and your anchor. I’m not perfect, nor will I ever be, but I love who I am and I’m happier than I’ve ever been.

For those of you who hated every aspect of 2020, I don’t blame you. But, for me, it has been a great year filled with new beginnings, inspiration, my passions coming to life, and surprising adventures. There have been so many beautiful moments and although we’ve all experienced losses this year, I think 2020 is a year we have all learned from and grew from. It has made us stronger and wiser (if we allow it). We’re ready for whatever 2021 brings and we’ll never forget the lessons we took away from this past year. I hope for beauty, good health, and prosperity in the new year. I feel good vibes and good energy coming our way in many forms.

I’m going to try to write more on my blog because I know many enjoy reading my words and I love to share my stories and thoughts with the world, but this year I dropped the ball. I was busy and creative in other ways, but I’m back (hopefully to stay). I want to share a 2021 bucket list I’ve made with all of you and I hope it inspires you to make one of your own.

  • New York City adventure
  • Endless Long Beach Island days
  • Camping out under the stars
  • Road trip
  • Upscale shopping spree
  • Wine tasting at a new winery
  • Poconos getaway
  • Bonfire & drinks with close friends

🖤 Cheers to 2021😘 I’ll be drinking Veuve Clicquot out of our wedding champagne flutes with my other half, watching the ball drop, in our living room on New Years Eve. Stay safe and try to behave this NYE, loves. Pop some bubbly and make your wishes for the new year.

Xoxo

Feeling Thankful

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Home for the holidays ✨❤️

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! I’m posting a day early, because tomorrow I’ll be busy and spending the day with my family. I’ll be drinking wine, eating good food, and soaking in one of my favorite holidays. Besides taking photos, I won’t be on my phone very much.

I know that this year is different than years past, but I’m more thankful than ever for what I have and who I have. Ever since I was a little girl Thanksgiving was spent in New York City, at my late grandmother’s apartment in The Village and then at my brother’s apartment in Brooklyn, but of course this year there’s no traveling or seeing relatives. I love Thanksgiving and eating dinner surrounded by Christmas decor. There’s nothing better than eating good food with the people you love and drinking a little too much wine. I love cuddling on the couch after Thanksgiving dinner and admiring the Christmas tree. Andrew and I are homebodies and feel much better staying home and staying safe, especially during the worst of COVID. We are officially home for the holidays.

This morning I woke up and cooked my famous sweet potato casserole and my green bean casserole. I watched Gossip Girl, because I’m missing New York City a little extra this week. I’m getting all of my cooking done today, because tomorrow is Andrew’s turn to cook. Tomorrow we will put on The Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, I’ll do my hair and makeup, slip into a festive dress, and Andrew will cook the turkey. We’ll have dinner with my parents and Andrew and I will end the day cuddled in bed with Greyson, watching Christmas movies. Andrew has to work on Black Friday, so Greyson and I will spend the day watching movies and we’ll go for our usual walk around our neighborhood. Saturday night Andrew and I are going to a drive-thru, holiday light show, which I’m so excited for. It’s a magical time of the year and there’s always so much to be thankful for. Many view 2020 as an epic failure, a shit show, and a year they wish to forget (I don’t blame them), but despite our new normal, I’ve had a really beautiful year filled with strength, growth, and love. 2020 has taught us valuable lessons, showed us who our true friends are, and reminded us of what matters at the end of the day.

I’m so thankful for my almost two year old son, who made my life somersault. Greyson, you’ve changed me for the better and have brought so much light and joy into our lives. I gained a best friend and a new outlook on life the day you were born. I love you more than words could ever describe and every day (even the hectic ones) are amazing. Thank you for choosing me to be your mommy and for being so smart, creative, silly, and wild. Motherhood is a gift and it should never be taken for granted. I’m thankful for my ability to be a stay at home mama and for my days spent with my little boy. I know that there are so many different ways to parent and each mom must find their own balance, but this is what I wanted and I believe it is what’s best for myself and Greyson. I love every single day spent with my son and the messy, crazy, beautiful moments.

I’m thankful for my incredible husband who always puts our needs above his own. Andrew, thank you for our life and the breathtaking moments. Thank you for working endlessly and tirelessly to provide us with everything we need and want and for allowing me to be home with our son. Thank you for dreaming everyday about our future, for never giving up, and for inspiring me to do the same. Thank you for loving us unconditionally and deeply. Thank you for showing me that soulmates exist and that true love is real. You’re my life and you’ve taught me so much and not just because you’re older than me, but because we’re different. We bring out so much in each other. I’m the free spirited, wild, spontaneous one. You’re the steady, stable, rational one. Together, we’re everything. I found my balance when I met you and I’m grateful for our life together. I love you so much, forever, always, no matter what.

I’m thankful for my closest friends and family who continue to stand by my side, share in the beautiful moments, and remind me of what’s truly important. I love all of you and I hope that next year we can all be together again from my annual Friendsgiving to a large Thanksgiving gathering with family. It’s the little things that we miss this year, but we’re all together in spirit, sharing food, wine, and stories. I enjoyed a Zoom family gathering last night and it reminded me of my favorite memories as a child, which was our crazy, fun, holiday dinners as a family in the city. I’m thankful that my family and friends remain healthy and safe during a very trying year and that we all have a place to call home.

I’m thankful for my gorgeous life, my home, and my pretty things. I’m thankful for my passions, from ballroom dancing and fashion to writing and nature. I’m thankful for our planet and the animals and plants that make me smile every day. I’m thankful for my body, mind, and soul and for being healthy. I’m thankful for every breath and every day.

May we all emerge from this year stronger, better, and filled with inspiration. Life is scary and unpredictable but that’s part of what makes it so beautiful. Take a moment to be thankful for all that you have today, tomorrow, and always. Happy Thanksgiving from my family to yours. I wish you all beauty, good health, and lots of love.

Cheers. Xoxo.

Long Time No Post

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Hi readers,

I’ve been absent from my blog lately and honestly, I just haven’t been in the mood to write. Although, I have been working on two pieces of writing off of my blog that I will post as soon as they’re complete. I hope everyone is finding inspiration in the days leading up to the holidays and enjoying the colder temperatures. I’ve missed the sound of my nails tapping the keys on my iPad keyboard as I write about my days and share inspiration with all of you, but I definitely needed a writing break. Sometimes, I just feel blank when it comes to writing projects and I need time away, distracted by other creative ventures.

Election day and the days that followed (Election Day continued) were stressful for me and I couldn’t sleep, which threw off my entire schedule. I’ve always been very vocal and honest about how I feel regarding Donald Trump and my disdain for him. It has been a long, four years and when I heard the news that Joe Biden will be our next President of The United States, with Kamala Harris as our next Vice President, I cried. I haven’t felt as though we had a leader for four years. Donald Trump, who continues to fall short as not just a leader, but also as a human being and a man, gave racism, homophobia, anti-semitism, transphobia, and misogyny a platform in this country. No, he didn’t create racism or violence, for those two acts have existed for as long as there have been humans on this earth, but he made it okay for men to openly bash women and their rights, for black men and women to be murdered brutally, for gays to be mocked for who they love, and for white, angry men to brandish weapons, while wearing a hat with Trump embroidered on it. In short, I am thrilled to be able to look to my son and say that we now have a President coming into office in January who cares, who loves his wife and kids, who has known heartache and who rose above the pain, who has always worked hard, and who was man enough to choose a woman as his Vice President. I’m excited for the protection and preservation of our environment to be important again and for all human rights to matter for the first time in four years.

I turned twenty five on November 4, the day after Election Day and let’s just say I got my number one birthday wish. Congratulations to Joe Biden and Kamala Harris on their incredible victory. As a twenty five year old, a young mom, and a wife I have learned so much about myself and the world around me during the past couple of years. I’ve never been happier with my life or myself than I am at this very moment. I have chosen the people who are in my life for a reason and I’ve said goodbye to toxic, negative people. If I don’t talk to you or interact with you, there’s a reason. If you aren’t my kind of person and don’t bring light, love, and positivity into my life, there isn’t a place in my life for you. When you’re a teenager and entering into your twenties it’s hard to let go of people that you don’t care for, but as you get older you realize it’s the only way to truly be happy. It’s not about quantity…it’s about quality. I no longer care about what others think, how many likes I get on social media, or about being “perfect”. I care about happiness, my family, my dear friends, the environment, animals, and my home. I care about good sex, good food, and good wine. I care about laughter that leaves you sore, soaking up nature, and breathtaking moments. I feel secure and happy beyond words. I know who I am, what I want, what I need, and what I love. There’s power in knowing who you are and in feeling true happiness.

As we all know this has been one of the weirdest, hardest years for everyone and 2020 isn’t over yet. I decided to decorate for Christmas on Election Day because this year deserves an extended holiday season. I’ve been falling in love with my beautiful decorations, Christmas music, and Christmas movies. I’ve already done all of my Christmas shopping and I’m inhaling every beautiful moment and day, making the most of every second. I love waking up and walking into my living room, where my pretty Christmas tree sparkles and glows in the early morning hours. I love going for a drive, singing along to my favorite Christmas songs and getting hot chocolate. It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas and it feels completely magical this year. I fell in love with the holidays when I was a little girl and I love sharing the magic and moments with Greyson. I’m of course looking forward to Thanksgiving and I have so much to be thankful for this year, as always. I know that many aren’t celebrating the holidays this year with their extended families and are sticking to their immediate family, but it’s still important to fill your home with love, good food, and fun. I won’t be seeing my brother, sister in law, or my aunts and uncles this year, which makes me very sad, but we did plan a Thanksgiving Zoom date a few days before, which is something. I would rather us all be safe and careful than careless during the colder months when the Coronavirus is surging. Regardless of how you feel, mask up. Do it for your kids, your parents, or anyone in your life whose older or immunocompromised. It shouldn’t have to happen to you for you to care. It’s a time of the year to give more than you take and by wearing a mask you’re giving yourself and others way more than you think. By cancelling big events and making the most out of smaller, more intimate gatherings, you will discover that less is always more and it’s the little things that matter most.

Andrew, my incredibly hardworking husband has been renovating one of our bathrooms and I can’t wait for that project to be done. It fits our farmhouse perfectly and the tile, fixtures, and the vanity that I picked are gorgeous. I’ve also been busy lately with dog walking, leash training, and pet sitting clients. I always love going to a client and making them happy along with their four-legged friends. For anyone who was wondering what presents I got for my twenty-fifth birthday, (because who doesn’t like to hear about gifts?) it was a Burberry birthday. I got beautiful, Burberry sunglasses that I’m obsessed with and two Burberry perfumes that smell too good to be real. I also got to go out to dinner with my husband and son at one of my favorite restaurants, have champagne and cake with my mom, and I received so many birthday text messages from my closest friends and family that truly made my day special. I’m so glad that I took some time on this quiet, chilly Monday to share anything new in my life with all of my readers. I will try not to disappear again! Stay tuned for a Thanksgiving post and please stay safe 💜

Xoxo

The Greyson Diaries

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Home With my Boy 💙

Before I had Greyson I worked at least forty hours a week in the fashion & marketing world. I worked crazy holiday hours, wore high heels every day, and I spoiled myself with gifts every week. I actually just began a new role as Marketing Assistant for an upscale shopping and dining plaza when I found out I was pregnant. I was there for exactly a year and I worked right up until I was about to give birth to our beautiful boy, but when I was ready to return to work after my maternity leave I met with my boss in-person, with Greyson beside me in his stroller, and she basically told me they could no longer afford to pay for my position. I was heartbroken because I loved my job, the connections I made, and I was talented. I came from a fashion retail background and started as a seasonal sales associate at PacSun at age fifteen, started my own pet sitting and animal training business in 2014, and then wound up at Francesca’s as a manager shortly after starting my own business. I live and breathe fashion, style, and design. I will be embarking on a schooling journey shortly that revolves around fashion and marketing, but I’m not prepared to talk about it just yet. Creativity is who I am and despite being a stay at home mommy now, I still own and operate my pet sitting business, Petsitting by Lizzie LLC and I spend my days falling in love with clothes, adventures, and writing. I never let go of any of my passions, skills, or hobbies, but at the end of the day my favorite job, and the job I’m the absolute best at is being a mommy to Greyson. Being a mom is a tiring, stressful, and beautiful job. No two days are alike and there are no direct deposits, vacation days, or promotions. On good days and bad, I’m home with my boy.

I’m already planning ahead with what I want to do once Greyson is in school and I can jump back into the workforce. It’s a hard decision, deciding whether or not to wait to go back to work or to put your young child in daycare (or hire a nanny if you’re able to afford one). Now, during Covid-19 it’s an even harder decision for many moms and dads, because school and childcare is changing. I don’t even feel comfortable leaving my child with a babysitter or a nanny for health reasons. I tried to go back to work part-time in the fashion retail world when Greyson was six months old and I was miserable. I was anxious, depressed, and the job didn’t seem worth the emotions I was feeling. I hated leaving Greyson and because of my existing anxiety issues I truly couldn’t handle it. I left the retail job and I’ve been home, only operating my pet sitting/animal training business ever since. I’ve been asked many times about the true life of a stay at home mom, if I miss working full-time, if there are cons to being at home 24/7, and if I think it’s a lifestyle any mom can adapt to.

The truth about being a stay at home mama is that what you see in pretty photos on social media, on reality tv, or on the covers of glossy magazines at the grocery store is not reality. For example, it’s important to soak in that what you watch on The Real Housewives franchise and other reality television series that portray a mommy/housewife lifestyle is far from realistic. One, if you’re watching a TV show with busy, wealthy housewives there are nannies in the background to help them (I don’t care what they say), which is not the norm for most stay at home moms. Two, there are no television crews following the average mama around while she makes breakfast, runs errands, and grocery shops, so she doesn’t need to be done up and over the top every day. Most of us aren’t posing for magazine covers and flooding social media with photos during the day. Three, most stay at home mamas don’t brunch with their friends every week at expensive restaurants or plan elaborate parties. Way too many don’t understand what it’s really like being home with kids because media isn’t honest. Media is damaging on so many levels but especially for moms. We see these women glamorized in perfect homes and we think we NEED to be that. That doesn’t exist, mamas. No one has a perfect life and no one looks perfect 24/7.

My lifestyle as a stay at home mom is busy, simple, and a constant adventure. I take care of our home, plans for the week, myself and creative passions (such as ballroom dancing). I make sure I do yoga every day and I try to go for a walk with Greyson every day (if the weather permits), and of course, I take care of Greyson’s needs 24/7. I manage to keep it all together, but some days make me want to cry because I’m exhausted or at the end of my rope, which is completely normal. My thirty minutes of yoga at the beginning or end of the day surrounded by candles is everything to me, because some days that is the only true peace that I get. I only have one child so that makes things much easier, but for many mamas who have more than one their days are quite different than mine. I don’t know how some moms with three-four kids (all under the age of five) do it, but I do know that moms are superheroes. We create a life, house that life inside of us for nine months, we deliver that life despite fear, and then we jump right into our motherly instincts and raise that life to be a beautiful, healthy person. I don’t always have time for myself and I’m always putting someone else’s needs over my own, but that’s okay. That’s what I signed up for and I’m happy that I did. I’m happy and thriving and balanced. It took awhile to feel balanced and at peace as a busy mama, but I am proof that you can feel amazing and fulfilled as a stay at home mom. Being a mom who truly enjoys their day to day life is all about harmony. You need to give yourself just as much as you give your children.

I’m excited for the future and for a job one day that fulfills me the way being a mom does, but I don’t miss working full-time, because I know being home with my boy is where I’m supposed to be right now. I will find another job one day that I love so much and that makes me excited to go to work every day, but for now I’m enjoying the opportunity to spend my days with my boy. For me, I don’t feel as though there are any cons to being a stay at home mom, but there are adjustments. I was lucky enough to stay home because my husband takes very good care of us. He works so hard and I’m so grateful for him and the person that I married. It’s nice being taken care of, but it’s an adjustment not receiving a direct deposit to your account every week, or two weeks, that you worked for once you’re a stay at home mom. Once you’re home there’s no payment process at all. You’re just a mom. Andrew is the first guy that I ever let take care of me besides my dad, which was the biggest adjustment for me. When you operate on one income you’re more thoughtful about your spending because it affects everyone, which is actually a positive thing. As a stay at home mom you don’t need to do your makeup everyday or get dressed up. I choose to do my makeup and wear a cute outfit most days because it’s important to take care of yourself and to feel beautiful, even if you’re just cleaning and cooking that day. When you’re home every day you might find yourself cleaning too much, doing too many home projects, and feeling as though you’re trapped in a bubble. I love my home and I love taking care of it but there are definitely days I drive myself crazy obsessing over things. It’s okay to take a day elsewhere, like a day trip with your children to breathe outside of your home. It’s healthy to have a moment somewhere else, where you can refocus your attention. This is one reason I love going for walks.

Being a stay at home mommy isn’t for every woman. Honestly, I know many women who would hate being home and could never live the lifestyle I’m currently living. But, I also know many women who have been stay at home moms and who loved it and many who would love it if, or when they become moms. It’s a choice that only the woman can decide for herself and no one should ever make that decision for someone else. I love my life and my lifestyle but I’m also respectful of those who needed (financially or emotionally) to jump right back into working full-time. If you can financially be home and it feels right, do it. You can always go back to work if you choose. Your resume and experience isn’t going anywhere. Your passions will always be there. Remember mamas, we have the hardest and most rewarding job in the world and despite the fact that we might not always get the credit we deserve, each day as a mom is gorgeous. Follow your heart and whatever you do, do it with love and you will never be wrong.

Xoxo

Always Falling for Fall

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Ever since I was a little girl I’d look forward to pumpkins, falling leaves, and cool weather. I’d dream of endless October evenings and comfy sweaters hanging off my shoulders. It’s a special time of the year and it’s the perfect time for change. Whether you’re changing your hair color, wardrobe, or redecorating your home, it’s a time to renew and refresh. I tend to organize and purge my closets and home around this time so that I have a clean slate for the holidays. I’m falling for fall at home and I hope to inspire others to have fun this fall with decorating, pumpkin picking, hayrides, and Halloween magic, despite our new normal. Watch movies and cuddle on the couch, buy pumpkins and mums, cook fall-themed meals, and stay positive.

Here’s a little taste of my home this fall 🧡

My farmhouse theme is always present. Pumpkins, harvest decor, and plaid goes with my home’s vibe, which makes decorating for the fall season even better. I keep my harvest decor out until the day before Thanksgiving. I usually decorate for Christmas on Thanksgiving Eve, because I enjoy celebrating Thanksgiving with my Christmas tree lit and decorated.
I love outdoor decor! If you’re on a budget, the best and prettiest way to decorate for fall is with pumpkins, mums, and hay bales. Make sure you buy good quality plants and pumpkins so that they last throughout the fall season. My pumpkins and mums usually last from September until November.
There’s nothing better than a cozy living room! Spend some extra time creating a comfortable, cozy seating area for you to enjoy while watching a movie, or having a cup of coffee. I love pillows and throws. They’re fun, long-lasting, and homey. I bought all of my pillows and throw blankets at Marshall’s.

There’s a lot of hate, violence, and illness taking over the United States…flooding our lives like a tsunami, and many are feeling overwhelmed and tired. Decorating for fall reminded me of what’s really important to me and that it’s always therapeutic to do something creative at home. We’re all ready for a better tomorrow and I hope there’s a lot of beauty ahead for everyone. It’s so important to surround yourself with love, light, and joy. Fill your home with fall vibes and enjoy this new season. Be grateful for October and all that it brings. Things are different and there’s no denying the existence of our new normal, but we can adapt and we must. If you don’t feel comfortable going out trick or treating this year with your kids, that’s okay. Plan a spooky, fun night at home with costumes, candy, popcorn, and scary movies. I’ll be dressing up with Greyson and Andrew for Halloween and having a cozy night at home this year. Luckily, Greyson isn’t even two years old yet and he won’t mind staying home for Halloween, but for those who have older kids who are fully aware of the intense changes happening on a daily basis, make their experience at home inspiring.

One great way to inspire yourself and your family at home is through decorating and creating a beautiful, fun space. I love creating beauty out of spaces and moments. I wish everyone a healthy, happy, and cozy fall season 🧡🍂

A Different Story

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I was hanging out at a local coffee shop junior year of high school.

I went for a run last week for the first time in years. In high school, I used to go for runs to escape from my thoughts for a little while because when you’re working out, sweating, and focusing on your body, you can quiet your emotions. I walked by so many little kids heading back to school after what has been the hardest year any of us have ever experienced from Covid-19 and our new normal to the economy changing in front of our eyes. I cannot imagine having a school-age child right now and sending them back to school, hoping they’ll keep their mask on, wash their hands, and sanitize. It’s hard to picture little kids wearing masks and immersing themselves in the school experience way differently than I did when I was a little girl. I never saw a world that looked like the one we currently live in. I applaud all moms and dads who are working so hard to keep their kids sane, healthy, and happy during a difficult time. My baby boy is still way too young to even understand what this year has consisted of, which I’m honestly happy about.

As children and young adults head back to school in different forms this month I wanted to take a moment to walk down memory lane and provide my young readers with advice from a woman whose been there. I remember every beautiful and every heartbreaking moment of high school…it wasn’t the happiest of times for me. Although, I did meet one of my closest friends the summer before entering into freshman year and my other good friend I met freshman year. It’s crazy how long we’ve known each other and they literally watched me grow up, which is something you can’t replace. I still remember my first love, my first crazy, sleepless night, and my first wild party like it was yesterday. I can still smell the perfume I wore every day to school, hear the songs that were on my Spotify playlists (so much Lana Del Rey), and taste my drink of choice when I went out with my friends on a Friday night. I did so much growing up and although it wasn’t always pretty, it was reality.

I learned, grew, and changed a lot during my high school years. I don’t relate to the girl I once was, but I love her. I love that she got me to where I am today. I love how fierce, passionate, and emotional she was, always. For those who don’t know, I was raped just after finishing my sophomore year of high school which catapulted me into a darkness so dense I never thought I’d feel sunshine again. I was no longer naive and I was forced to grow up in that moment, knowing that it was the only way to survive and move forward. I had to figure out how to not only love again, but also how to have sex again without having a panic attack. It was a long, painful journey. I remember lying beneath my first love and crying as soon as he touched me. He looked at me with this doe-eyed, worried gaze and I then had to tell him what had happened to me months before, which I was dreading. I had to explain to him that I wasn’t the same girl I was when we met freshman year and that I was barely holding it together. I was struggling with existing and there’s nothing scarier than that. When I say I’ve been there, I’ve been to the darkest places. I’ve also been to the most beautiful and I appreciate every page of my story because it’s made me who I am today.

I emerged from the darkness a stronger, better version of myself and I want to be that strength for others. I want to continue to remind young people that you have no idea how insanely strong you are. You’re amazing and can get through anything life throws at you. No matter how many rainy days you’ve made it through the sunshine is just around the corner. One of my favorite TV shows of all time is Gossip Girl, which I watched religiously in high school. I cried when the finale aired and I have always connected with the show because of my personal connection to New York City. I’ve sat on the Metropolitan Museum steps where Blair Waldorf and her band of followers ate their yogurt, I shopped at Saks and Barney’s where the Upper East Side princesses bought their wardrobes, and I’ve sipped martinis at famous Upper East Side restaurants, just like Blair and Serena. I watched Gossip Girl today and thought about my high school self…sometimes I miss her. Sometimes I wish I could talk to her and tell her that the most gorgeous chapter of her story is waiting for her just around the bend. I wish I could tell her that she will be an amazing mom and that becoming a parent will change her life. I wish I knew then what I know now.

Life is short and it’s beautiful. Your strength will sometimes be the only one by your side, but it’s a light that will never burn out. When you’re little you look for your shadow as you’re walking down the road, but instead of looking for your shadow, look for your strength. It’s always there. Don’t worry about what others think about you, or what they say, because there’s literally nothing you can do to control that. What you can control is who you surround yourself with and how you let others affect you. Be you. Be unapologetically yourself and never regret your decisions, even the bad ones because in the moment it was exactly what you wanted. Let your walls down and wear your heart on your sleeve. Your heart will get broken regardless of what you do to protect it, but hearts are wild creatures…our ribs are cages for a reason. Hearts are fierce and will always recover from heartache. Learn from the tears and the pain but don’t run away from it. You need to feel all of the emotions to grow and move forward. Don’t be afraid of your emotions. Every feeling is natural and demands to be felt. Hang on tightly to the people who make you feel loved, alive, and happy. They’re the good ones.

Live wildly and without boundaries. Listen more than you speak…you’ll learn so much about life and other people if you open your heart, eyes, and ears. The most inspiring conversations you’ll ever have will probably be with strangers, and that’s okay. Even strangers are put in our path for a reason. Never judge a person. You have no idea what keeps them up at night, or what they’ve been through. It doesn’t matter how much money a person has…money doesn’t buy happiness. Money doesn’t buy true love, laughter, or inspiration. Be the kind one. Be the sweet one. Be the compassionate one. We need more people like that. Hold the door open for others, ask about everyone’s day, and smile. Let your smile fill the room with warmth and positivity, even on the darkest of days. Instead of waiting for the storm to pass, enjoy the peacefulness of the rain. Dance and laugh more often. When you’re doing the laundry, cleaning, or getting ready for your day put on your favorite song and sing along. Soak in your favorite lyrics and let them inspire you. Go for a drive and roll the windows down on a cool, fall day. Watch the leaves change color in autumn, decorate for the holidays, and light some pretty candles. Read good books, eat good food, and enjoy a strong drink. Find time for you and workout, meditate, and unwind. No matter how tired you are, go for a run, a walk, or do a quick workout routine at home. It’s never fun to exercise, or easy but it’s so good for you. Be thankful for every breath you take and never take a day for granted. Be thankful that you can walk, run, and workout. Appreciate your body. After I became a mom I learned how incredible and strong my body is.

No matter how low you’re feeling, this too shall pass. The pain is real, but so is the light. There’s light in every single day…you just have to find it. Sometimes, it’s the little things that are everything. You’re here for a reason. There are only so many tomorrows. So, say “I love you” more, kiss with passion, and laugh loudly. Get a cup of your favorite coffee in the morning and sit in a pretty spot while you drink it, inhaling the entire moment. Watch the trees on a windy day and feel the sun on your skin on warm, summer walks. Moisturize your skin as much as you can, wear sunscreen, and take vitamins. Eat colorful, healthy food, but treat yourself to pizza and French fries sometimes, too. When opportunities come your way, say yes. Get drinks with good people, stay up late some nights just to sit under the stars, and open up to those who love you about your goals, fears, and passions. Live your life with passion and purpose and never give up. This is your story. Write the sentences you wish to read.

Here I am next to the love of my life, my best friend, my husband. I am the happiest I’ve ever been and I’m thankful for every chapter of my story. Soak in my advice from this blog entry, but also make your own mistakes…they’re learning experiences in the end.

XoXo 😘